Archive for October, 2008
Top Ten Business Lessons I’ve Learned from Sports
Oct 27th
In the last post I wrote I discussed my thoughts on being the best player on a losing team vs. the worst player on a winning team. In that post I touched on my personal experiences dealing with both scenarios in sports and business. I had several readers email me and tell me they wanted to know more about my athletic career, what I learned from it and how I apply those lessons to my business career today. Instead of elaborating on that issue via-email, I thought that particular topic would be a great for my next post…
So here is my Top Ten Business Lessons I’ve Learned from Sports:
- Competition Helps You Grow
- If You Want to Be Great…Do extra
- Build a Team of Value Creators
- Stand on the Shoulders of Giants
- Timing is everything
- Be Passionate About What You Do
- Realize there is Always Going to be Haters
- Set Lofty Goals
- Just Do it
- Sometimes it’s wise to re-direct your energy
During my basketball career I realized that competition is healthy. It keeps you on your toes and on your “A Game”. Competition motivates you to work harder and give your all, even when nobody is watching…There’s nothing like knowing your improving while your compe
tition is sleeping. The same is true in business. Know your competitors and create some healthy competition. Also your current competitor may be a future collaborator or team-mate. If not, both of you are at least working to grow your specific industry as a whole.
I strongly believe that in order to get ahead you have to do everything the others do…and more. You can be extremely talented in sports, or business, but if you want to be looked upon as a leader in your field you have to Do Extra. This could mean shooting an extra 500 jump shots or more after practice (Which I did religiously) or working late after hours on a presentation or business plan- which I do religiously.
You want people on your team that are better/smarter than you in their respective areas and people that are value creators. A great way to see if someone is a value creator is to look at their past accomplishments or successes. If someone has created value for themselves or the past teams/companies they have been a part of, chances are they can create value for your organization as well.
It’s always good to have a role-model or mentor both in sports and in business. This allows you to learn from other’s mistakes, so you don’t have to make the same ones on your own. When I played basketball I used to study Michael Jordan’s game tapes, and read about or talk to successful pro players. In business I seek out the top entrepreneurs, or industry vets and enjoy talking with them about their experiences and listening to their advice. I don’t look at successful people through eyes of jealousy, but inspiration, knowing that if they can achieve those levels of success, I can as well.
Timing is an essential element in sports and business. In both scenarios the moves you make must be relevant to what is going on around you. You shouldn’t shoot a random shot without knowing the scenario of the game, everything should be in context. If it’s late in the fourth quarter you may want to hold the ball, if there’s a need in an Industry not being fulfilled you may want to move extremely fast and get clients in contract to lock out competitors. You also have to actively keep up on trends and emerging innovations if you want to be successful in a particular industry. In both scenarios it’s all about being aware of what’s happening around you then planning your moves accordingly.
When your passionate about something it shows. If your playing a sport and are just going through the motions everyone can pick up on that. When your passionate about an issue it’s like “Your in the Zone” when your doing it. Time seems to stand still and you can accomplish a great amount and it seems almost effortless.
When your doing something right, there is always going to be people that are jealous and try to bring you down. There are a lot of people who just like bringing others down, because they don’t have enough passion or desire to channel that energy into improving themselves. Either way I use the haters as motivation. I realize if I wasn’t doing something right, haters probably wouldn’t even notice me. They would be focusing their efforts on bringing down somebody who was doing something right.
I believe that people should set high goals for themselves. Not goals that are completely unattainable, but lofty ones. In sports and business, if you have high expectation for yourself, even if you don’t quite reach them, typically you’ll still be in a much better position than if you had lower goals.
When trying to accomplish something In business and sports, there are a million excuses that can be made to explain why something can’t happen. First off let me say that you need to take time to develop your skills, or conduct research for your market, but once you have a decent grasp…Jump in and Do it. Once you get actively involved in something it’s easy to find others who can help you get the ball rolling. You also learn an unbelievable amount by going through tough scenarios first hand.
This was a very hard lesson for me to learn, but I’m very glad I learned it. I have never been a quitter. I am a very positive thinker and hard worker, however sometimes it’s better to re-direct your energy to an opportunity that is more fruitful for you.
Growing up I always thought I could get a Division one college scholarship then go to the NBA.
After I graduated high school and things weren’t panning out the way I expected, but I didn’t give up. I went to a top prep school in Connecticut and started averaging 10 pts per game on a very good team. After getting no Division one scholarship offers, I then started playing for a smaller college team (California University of PA). Though I was doing very well in practice, the coaches still weren’t playing me. This was extremely frustrating to me, because I’ve never been a bench player.
One day it clicked to me…If I don’t go to the NBA, what will I have? If I continue on my current path, I’ll graduate with a degree that isn’t even accredited and will have no real work experience in my field. It was at this point I decided to re-direct my energy to something that looked more promising, business.
Today I still stay very mindful of this lesson. You have to know when to re-direct your energy. If your in a venture that you love, you can have all the positive thoughts you want, but you have to be a realist. Ask yourself…What is the risk & potential return of my decision? Is the potential return worth the risk? If you have the potential to lose all of your life savings, go into massive debt and break up your marriage…You better make sure the potential return is there.
Feel free to add your thoughts, as well as other business lessons that you have learned from sports.
Being the Worst player on a winning team vs. the Best player on a losing team
Oct 18th
Ted Murphy of IZEA just asked this question via twitter:
Very good question and I wanted to elaborate about this.
My first response to Ted was that it really depends what game we’re playing, what the perks are of winning and what the risks are of losing.
I grew up playing basketball and my dad always took me into the inner city to play on teams with the best players. At practice many times I often got whooped, but I learned and grew.
I eventually became the leader of my region in scoring in high school on a winning team and even played college basketball for a year. What I realized however is that there has to be a balance between the two concepts to really reach your full potential. Each concept has different perks which can add value to your personal development in business, sports and life.
Being a nobody on a winning team Perks
- You get to see first hand what it takes to win and how the leaders of that team carry themselves.
- You surround yourself and make contacts with the right network of people.
- You get to reap the rewards of being a winner, which can be extremely fruitful even for the nobodies.
Being the best on a losing team perks
- If your goal is to become a great leader, sometimes being the best on a losing team can give you the ability to practice leading and really hone your skills so you can eventually be a leader on a winning team. You may even be able to turn your losing team into winning one. For example Michael Jordan went through many losses and took the game winning shots and missed many times. However he learned what that responsibility is like and how to focus and take control in crunch time and turned out to be the greatest player ever in history. Being on a winning team with other stars you may not get the chance to take that winning shot and will miss out on that aspect of personal development.
When looking at this concept in relation to my start up and business career expectations….
If GroupTable were to get venture funding and the investors brought on an experienced CEO to run the company and my equity & position in my own company got diluted immensely, I would be ok, or even embrace this as long as I thought the team I co-founded would win. My business partner Scott Wall often says it’s better to have 1% of $500M than 100% of nothing.
However there will come a point in my business life where I have been on enough winning teams to know what it takes and will want the responsibility to lead my company to success. Even if I make mistakes, which any successful person has done, you will eventually learn how to handle those situations and excel…just like Jordan did.
Well…even if it’s not quite “Just like Jordan did”, you can at least reap great rewards when you learn to focus and control risk in tough situations like he did.
What are your thoughts on this issue…Which team would you rather be on?
The Frugal Millionaires- Jeff Lehman
Oct 18th
Jeff Lehman, a former executive of Alta Vista, Webaroo and a current adviser to GroupTable recently networked with 70 Millionaires and asked them questions about how they obtained wealth, how they live their life to keep that wealth, and recommendations & ideas for others to live their lives financially smart. He took all of his gatherings and has been putting together a book called The Frugal Millionaires. Jeff told me about this book a few months back and I’ve been eagerly waiting for it’s release. He informed me yesterday that it’s officially out…I immediately bought it on Amazon.
I feel this book will be a great investment for anyone serious about building & keeping wealth in their lives. It’s worth the $20 to get you on the right track to financial success. I can’t wait for my copy to arrive, knowing Jeff it’s going to be awesome!
You can also click the image below to see some press coverage on the book.
I Came, I Saw, I Conquered- The Crusade Was A Success
Oct 13th
As most of you know, based on my last few posts I have been crusading (Doing SEO techniques) to get my name back to it’s rightful spot on the top of the Google Search engine for “David Brim”. I switched my blog platform from blogger to wordpress and ran into a bunch of problems with the SERPS. I’m glad to say that today while on my lunch break I decided to google my name David Brim and I have officially reclaimed my thrown as the #1 David Brim in the land according to Google. An added cherry on top is that now I also rank number one for “Dave Brim” as well.
See how I regained my spot by visiting my Crusade for #1 in Google Post.
My Crusade to Reach the #1 Spot on Google Again
Oct 11th
So a few days ago I posted about how Google stopped indexing my blog, Filled to the Brim about a week after I switched from Blogger to WordPress. For a long time when I typed “David Brim” into the search engines I owned nearly the whole page, now a David Brim from illonois has the top spot in Google and Ask and my venture GroupTable has number two.
So I have been doing a lot of research and actions in the hopes to regain my rightful spot in the search engines.
I was kind of spoiled in a sense with blogger because it’s automatically optimized for Google, because they own it. After switching to wordpress there were many adjustments I needed to do. I also had the problem of having all of my blogger post’s indexed and having a different url structure once I transitioned to WP. When I clicked the blogger url in google I would get a 404 error.
So here’s what I’ve done so far based on some great advice from Lorelle on WordPress , Kyle Eslick , Nate from Unique Blog Designs, Neil Patel and others:
- Adjusted the settings in my WP dashboard which were automatically set for “Only Allow people to find my blog, not search engines” – Who knows why they made that the default?!?
- Changed my permalink Structure: from the default (www.davidbrim.org/?p=6) to a custom url (www.davidbrim.org/sample-post)
- Downloaded a permanent re-direct plug in for WP which makes sure that there is only one URL per post. When a old url is clicked it is automatically re-directed to the new post
- Created a sitemap and submitted it to Google’s Webmaster’s tools
- Began tagging my posts more frequently with relevant keywords
- Pinging my blog each time I update it in technorati and google
As of now it appears that when searching for David Brim I am first in Yahoo, but still not on the first page of Google or Ask results.
I am anxious to regain my rightful spot(s) in the SERPs, especially the Google ranking and will keep everyone updated. If the other David Brim from illonois see’s this post…I’m coming for you!
Ps…Regarding my crusade picture: Halloween is around the Corner and I just got my costume today, give me a break…lol
Ny Trip Re-cap & Thoughts on Time Square vs. Social Media
Oct 9th
I just returned to Orlando yesterday evening from the SMX conference in Nyc. All in all it was a great trip. The conference went very well and a lot of people expressed interest in what we are doing and were eager to learn more about how Social Media can grow their business. On Monday night Ted, Ashley, Randy and I met up with Brett from Mashable and had some awesome dinner at Joe’s Shanghai Restaurant. After that we went to the tweet-up (twitter party) at the Angels & kings club.
On Tuesday night Ashley and I had dinner with Chrissie Brodagan, VP of Plum TV, then went to Time Square. Now I’ve been to Time Square several times and I’ve enjoyed it, however I always said that being there was a bit of a sensory overload. Chrissie said it best: “Being in Time Square is like Your Being Raped by Marketing Messages”.
If Social Media as a whole was to compare itself to Time Square they would be at complete opposite sides of the spectrum.
There’s a “Pop-up Ad” equivalent on every corner in Time Square (most likely multiple ones on each block). Hey take this flyer? Purses here $10…Hey want your picture taken? There’s also traditional forms of advertising as far as you can see…Digital billboards on sky scrapers, Posters on store windows, display ads on cabs, and people flaunting their favorite name brand gear, in essence becoming walking advertisements. Ads are everywhere, people are shouting, every corner has a vendor with food that tempts you as you pass by…it’s a complete sensory overload!
No real engagement, just loud marketing messages being shouted at you from all angles. I think all the hype & marketing messages every where is a major part of what makes Time Square so special and I think most people would agree. But I wonder how Time Square will change over the next 10 years…Will Time Square 2.0 be any different…if so how?
If you have any thoughts on this issue please share them
Five Ways Social Media is Like Working Out
Oct 8th
So recently I’ve been thinking about this issue and came to the conclusion that Social Media is a lot like working out. Now before you judge that comment look at my top 5 reasons why. I’m eager to hear your feedback ![]()

1) When you do it consistently and over time it will yield great results. You don’t have to be in the gym all day to be effective. Doing 15 minutes of quality exercise is better than being at the gym for six hours messing around and not getting a lot accomplished. We all have busy lives, but if you are willing to invest time into social media & building your online presence it can lead to more clients, friends, or even job opportunities.
2) It’s always good to “spot or support” others. You’ll have better relationships with those in the gym and in the social media realm if you show your support. In the gym this could be spotting someone as he does a tough excersise…In the social media realm it can be as simple as commenting on someone’s blog, writing on someones wall, or replying to someone’s tweet. Anything that shows the person who initiated the conversation that you are listening and care about what they are saying.
3) Having a Membership isn’t enough. What you do at the gym is more important than the fact that you have a membership. The same is true with social media. You can be a member of every social networking site on earth, have a blog and twitter account but if you don’t actually use them there’s no point. Content is king and what you do at the gym and on social media sites is what really creates value.
4) Sometimes working out can make your sore. That friend who is spotting you on on the bench press can sometimes push you a bit too hard. Just like you may go out with a friend(s) drinking and they push you to have more shots or more drinks…then the next day you have a bunch of drunk tweets and photos all over facebook and flickr. Always know your limits and watch what you do, because your actions could easily be broadcasted to the world in today’s digital age. In addition to this there are always going to be people at the gym who don’t like you. They think your a show off, or just don’t like the way you handle yourself. They could talk bad about you to the cute girl at the gym, or post something bad about you on a blog. Take this for what it’s worth, address it openly if needed, but don’t let it distract you from your work out or business objectives.
5) Be Honest & Transparent About your Accomplishments/Endeavors. If you say your going to the gym everyday and look like you’ve been sitting on the couch drinking beer and eating twinkies its apparent. Likewise don’t take steroids and pretend like your doing everything by the books. This is the same with social media. Don’t lie about yourself, your company or your accomplishments. Eventually what’s done in the dark will come to light. If you don’t disclose yourself properly eventually someone else will or it will be blatantly apparent.
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WTF Google?
Oct 8th
I recently had a great blog re-design from the Unique Blog Design guys and everything was going great with my transition from blogger to wordpress until….I decided to do a quick google search for my name
This really suprised me…I’ve ranked first in google for as long as I can remember. Not only did I rank first, but I owned every result on the first page except one. Now some guy from Illionois has taken the top spot…wtf Google?
My blog Filled to the Brim (DavidBrim.org) isn’t even ranked on the first or second page…It’s does appear on the third, however it’s a link with my old page structure and when I click the link it says “Page not found”
I did a ping on google for my blog earlier, but don’t know what else I should do. I would appreciate any insight or comments to resolve this issue.
Never Let You Down- Story of the Month
Oct 2nd
A few weeks back Never Let You Down’s founder/CEO , and long time friend James Betterson contacted me and asked me if he could interview and feature me in his monthly motivational story. Never Let You Down is a great new company created to motivate and inspire people around the world, they sell motivational products and are expanding to many other venues as well. I graciously accepted and today the interview was published. You can read the interview on Never Let You Down’s Website or their motivational blog.
I look forward to seeing Never Let You Down progress in the upcoming years. I know James has the Never Let You Down mentality engrained in his heart and know great things will be coming to him.
I’m a Record-breaker…haha
Oct 1st
While attending the Blog World Expo in Vegas last week the Unique Blog Design Guys, Ted and some other people convinced me to attempt to break the record at the long jump a company had set up in their exhibit.
I ended up breaking the record and got the xBox 360 video game NHL 2k9…Too bad I don’t have an xBox 360. Regardless it was a good time…Check out the video
I love how I checked the wind-factor before my second jump…lol













