A Lesson in Communication from Sun Tzu
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I’ve always enjoyed reading inspirational or thought provoking books when I have the time. I’m kind of a geek at heart and love learning about history, ancient philosophers and other wise men throughout the centuries whose names have lived on and words have remained relevant long after their time. One such person is Sun Tzu, an ancient Chinese philosopher and military strategist.
Sun Tzu is most popular for his book The Art of War. Though this book is filled with military strategies and tactics there are core lessons that can be extremely beneficial in many different situations such as sports, business or even personal relationships.
I was reading the art of war and came across a good quote that I thought was a very good lesson to reflect on.
“If words of command are not clear and distinct, if orders are not thoroughly understood, the general is to blame. But if his orders ARE clear, and the soldiers nevertheless disobey, then it is the fault of their officers.”
Having employees and interacting with vendors, partners and clients everyday I can completely appreciate the value of clear, concise and candid communication. It is very easy to think that someone understands what you are trying to get across just because you understand it. If you’re not clear it leaves someone to play the guessing game and try to perceive what they thought you’ve meant. This is how mistakes happen….breaks in communication. It’s always better to over explain giving several examples and very specific verbs and adjectives that articulate the exact message you’re trying to get across. This leaves no room for error in the communication process, only disagreement or insubordination as Sun Tzu said referred to. I strive to improve my communication skills daily in all of my interactions.
Have you had any experiences recently where you’ve noticed a break in communication that you or someone else could have prevented by being more clear?
If so please share
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Ryan Eglin said:
Communication is something we do everyday, but as you said we sometimes loose focus of how others may interpret the words we say. Sun Tzu’s quote and your post are something good to keep in mind each time we communicate.
July 26th, 2009 at 8:41 am -
David Brim said:
@Ryan thanks for stopping by. I agree…Sun Tzu’s quote is a great thing to keep in mind each time we communicate. It would solve a lot of problems before they even started.
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Jaime Felker said:
I see breaks in communication all the time. Most of the time I feel like people just don’t listen. Especially most guys…lol
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David Brim said:
In guys defense…we listen, we just may not care…haha jk
Don’t tell my gf I said that. Glad you enjoy my blog.
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